I am convinced there are no good websites for men who want to meet men for anything more than sex. I've tried A4A and I'm not impressed at all. But there aren't any real alternatives.

well damn rashid..what kind of site is this?

At first you think its a joke, or hilarious attempt at agitprop, and then I realized that I have gotten the same responses on that same website, sad.

I quit A4A when I realized it was a cyber bath house. Very superficial hook ups based on the guys who contacted me.

Yes, A4A does have its down side, dont get me wrong on that, but there are a few good men lurking in the corners of A4A. For example, I have been talking to this one guy for a while now, very stimulating convo, i even stayed over his place for a night, we didnt have sex because we are taking it slow.

Her in Alabama, I here u my brotha, not much to on A4A.

It seems like any where there are same gender loving men the focus turn to sex. I have even recieved sex pick up lines from yahoo personals. No site is safe from sex hookup. even at the clubs or bars men walk up me with words like "u wanna come home with me tonight.., or I can see myself inside you man ...." seems like the best place to meet the same man who will ask u for sex b4 a intake of breath is at a church, and that is if u o him is even clockable

Fellows remember A4A is a totally free site & and you only get what you put into it. Stop complaining and do something about it. Start your own site. When you get bad service, turn it around and become proactive. We are very intelligent and able to start our own Matchmaker sites with some class. I live in Columbus and I've found posting a profile without a pic, with only a true message of LTR it works better than all the other stuff brothas post. Good day.

(MOST) Men are pigs. Pure and simple.
You want a relationship... get a dog (or for Debbie Reynolds or Paul Lind fans, get a spider or a rat).

The whole "so-called" gay scene needs to be re-evaluated. These guys at Adam4Adam and any of these M4M sites are just "on-Line" bathhouses for Babylonians, Sodomites and Perpatraters. What's with this "DL" (decietful lies club), "Vers"...."I'm a real man seeking a real man"...Your all living in fantasy land. There are real brothers who want real relationships...we're just the last chosen after the prostituted/ST8/DL persons and of course any race other than Black. Its so pathetic; no wonder black men (of any kind) arent given any more respect than,"how big is your D***."

Adam4Adam is what you make of it. These days, all people think about is sex, gay and straight alike. The few that don't, all of which have posted here, get fed up and wonder why things are the way they are. I have figured out, THEY JUST ARE!!!