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I never knew there was a love like A Phi A...
Wow.
This has been my most amazing fraternal experience since crossing the burning sands three years ago.
In a bit, I will post pictures and commentary.....but in the mean time I just want to say how much I love APhiA.... and yes...
I FOUND MY ALPHA MOJO AGAIN!
Posted by Rashid on July 30, 2006 at 12:27 PM | Comments (3)
Day One: Off the Hook
Highlights:
Discovering that the librarian from my old elementary school is the granddaughter of a Jewel. I almost cried.
THE BAG!
The medallion!
Meeting LOTS of Brothers again or for the first time.
The Alpha Museum! (Really called the Centennial Exhibit, but I like Alpha Museum better, lol)
PARA!!!!! OMG I have the two flyest Alpha jackets in the known universe.
Not as high-lights:
Registration took two hours. :-/ And started two hours late.
More highlights:
Conversation with Brother Hill from California.
Coversation/breakfast time with Brother Carter.
Snapping a picture of a cute Alpha/AKA Couple.
Reconnecting with some chapter brothers.
The Skee-Phi Affair!
More later.....much much later.
Posted by Rashid on July 25, 2006 at 11:18 PM | Comments (0)
Holy Shit!
CONVENTION STARTS TODAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!
Posted by Rashid on at 6:27 AM
Way Too Into It
My name is Rashid, and I'm an Alphaholic.
:-/
The Centennial Convention is two days away! Although I have many concerns about this event, my enthusiasm for it hasn't waned. I hope to be among the first, if not THE first to register on Tuesday. (I already paid for my early registration, I just need to sign in.)
I have plotted out nearly minute of July 25 through 30! That's crazy, right?
The good news is that I was pre-selected to be part of the Author Pavilion!!! I am super excited about that....unless E. Lynn Harris has ever participated in an Alpha concention, this may be the first time that an openly gay author has been highlighted in any National gathering of black fraternity men.
Whoa.
So I'll be signing my book for three days with Greg Parks, whom I have befriended over the past year. He's a cool cat....buy his book African American Fraternities and Sororities: The Legacy and The Vision.
I rented my tuxedo on yesterday and it will be ready this Friday. I wanted to go hardcore with it, but I just decided on the simple black tux with gold accessories.
I got a haircut yesterday....at first it was FUCKED up! But then they fixed it. It's a lot shorter than what I wanted, but it still looks okay.
I'm hoping I can wear my contacts this week. When I wear my glasses, brothers don't seem to recognize me anymore.
Only one more day of work before convention....woooo hooooo! I know I have to actually GET through the day, but what's ten hours? I can do that with my eyes closed, especially in light of recent events. I swear, anyone who works with kids in a managerial role has to learn to move from crisis to crisis. There is never a slow day.
But tomorrow will be slow. I am claiming it.
Also, I am cleaning house right now....two brothers are gonna be staying with me. There are just certain times where you have to be brotherly and hospitable. I can't let someone NOT come to DC because they have no place to stay. I mean, come on. "Let brotherly love continue," the Bible says. I forgot where though, lol.
So for all you brothers and guests coming to DC this week -- shoot me an email so we can meet up and have a grand old time!
PS - And yes, I re-watched the APhiA documentary this morning like a dork.
Posted by Rashid on July 23, 2006 at 10:52 AM | Comments (2)
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Posted by Rashid on July 22, 2006 at 6:18 AM | Comments (0)
Saved by the Bell: The Addict Years
Posted by Rashid on July 17, 2006 at 6:35 AM | Comments (3)
Whatever happened to....
I just got in from a sorority conference this weekend. Much love to the ladies of Lambda Psi Delta. Special shout out to Dennis and the bros of Pi Delta Psi.
I am not feeling well. Whatever had been bothering me came to a head while in Orlando and now I feel like I have a cold AND my right ear is all stopped up from the flight. I feel like I can fight the cold if the right side of my head didn't feel like it was underwater.
So I was on MySpace just now, and you know..... I really can't let go of the disdain I feel for people. It's like ill....you STILL suck. And honestly, that's just how I am....I don't forget shit. Ever.
And to be honest....the mutual friends that I have with the people I dislike so much....they get taken down a notch, too.
My line brother used to want to fight dudes who dicked me over. And don't let them be interested in the frat in some form or fashion. My LB would be like "Oh HELL no, he will NEVER be an Alpha." And I'd be like damn homie....it's okay. Really. But that's loyalty for ya.
I wonder what happened to the dude I used to mess with who played Nintendo in his draws.
Well, I did a quick google search. LOL I am so psycho....he worked for the same company as of last summer. That's pretty cool.
Hmmm.....what happened to....
(more googling)
Wow.....he's married. I don't know whether to laugh or cry....this is some Dynasty shit, LOL. Dirty motherfuckin dog.....I'm not even mad for ME, because it's not like I loved this dude. I'm mad that yet another dude on the DL has duped yet another woman.
On that note....
Posted by Rashid on at 12:39 AM | Comments (2)
The Gay Man's Survey (from KOBY on MySpace)
the Gay Man's Survey
Welcome to the first ever gay male oriented MySpace Quiz!!!
Get ready, get set...answer, copy, paste and repost!!!
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1. What is the first thing you notice about the same sex?
If from far away, the whole body, if up close, the eyes.
2. Which male celebrity would you want as a love slave?
First inclination is to say Lenny Kravitz, but I want him more as a husband. As a love slave, Robert Ri'chard.
3. Gift card winner at work!...which store do you reach for?
Borders!
4. Admit it, are you a size queen?
No
5. What store do you base your fashion sense on?
Any average urban store.
6. If you could improve gay pride, what would you improve?
More understanding for the need to have Black Gay Prides.
7. Have you marched in a gay pride parade?
No.
8. Honestly, how many times do you go to the gym?
Two times past never.
9. Honestly, how many nights do you go out with the boys?
I don't often go out with the boys.
10. How long was your last relationship?
What's that?
11. What would you do the moment gay marriage is approved by voters?
I would be happy....but I still wouldn't have a fiance, lol
13. Where would you want to have your gay wedding?
Outdoors at Meridian Hill Park, reception at Meridian House (Josephine Butler Parks Center)
14. Who do you want to be there?
Everyone! Literally.
15. What kind of food/ who would cater your gay wedding ?
Indian
16. Who is your diva?
David Bowie, lol
17. Which type of gay man do you avoid?
Dishonest ones. DL ones.
18. What qualities do you look for in a man?
Loyalty, consistency, someone who can and does love me the way I need to be loved.
19. What exotic gay locale would you travel to?
Can a locale be gay? TRINIDAD
20. What song are you tired of hearing?
Bossy
21. Which club/bar in your gay neighborhood do you wish would just close down because its so tired?
I would shut down the Delta for renovations
22. Admit it, have you gone thru a vegetarian/vegan phase?
Very very briefly. Kinda like a five day fast a long time ago.
23. Which restaurant/type of restaurant would you take a date?
Doesn't matter too much as long as the conversation is good.
24. How much can you bench?
Don't know.
25. What one part of the male anatomy always get your attention?
The male hourglass: broad shoulders and chest, slim waist, a badunkadunk, and big thighs.
26. Whole Foods or Bristol Farms??
Whole Foods
27. Do you donate clothes you dont use anymore?
Everything except fraternity and school paraphernalia
28. What do you think of Paris Hilton's new singing career?
OVERRATED
29. Did you know Godiva Chocolates contain preservatives?
I think Godiva Chocolate is also overrated.
30. What would you rather watch, hot boys laying out, hot boys playing volleyball or hot boys washing cars?
Hot boys washing cars -- I'm somewhat of a voyeur.
31. Do you go return to work late from your 10 minute break?
No comment.
32. Where do you want to have your dream house?
Right here in DC in a neighborhood like Kalorama.
33. Whats your favorite cologne?
Cool Water
34. Whats your favorite cologne on him?
Doesn't matter
35. Have you worn red to a gay day at an amusement park?
Believe it or not, I'm not a huge fan of amusement parks.
36. What are your favorite TV shows?
The Wire, SVU, Days of Our Lives, etc
37. Admit it, which TV DVD collection do you own?
Monty Python's Flying Circus, The Wire, Punky Brewster
39. Admit it, did you ever have a sugar daddy?
Nope.
40. What is the drink you always order at the club/bar?
Anything sweet. The standby is the fuzzy navel.
41. Finish the sentence...when I go to a house party, I avoid....
The kitchen because the floor always ends up sticky.
42. What embarassing moment are you constantly reminded of?
None really.... I have embarrassing moments, but my friends aren't jerks like that.
43. What does your last text message say?
"No! Can you believe I went back to sleep and got up at 7?"
44. Admit it, which fast food restaurant lures you each and every time?
McDonald's
45. Your date just scored tickets...which singer/performer do you hope they are?
D'Angelo (I'm holding out for the comeback)
46. Admit it, do you lie about your age?
Nope.
47. What is your favorite sex position?
No comment
48. What movie, in theatres right now, would you take a date?
Superman
49. What movie, in theatres now, would you NOT take a date?
I dunno.
50. You're the tour guide...where would you take an out-of-towner who is unfamiliar with your city?
I like taking people on the "Upper Northwest tour so they can see the nice houses and upscale places to shop.
*Redo and Repost as 'the Gay Man's Survey'*
Posted by Rashid on July 13, 2006 at 6:01 AM | Comments (0)
Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. Celebrates a Century of Leadership and Service
Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. Celebrates a Century of Leadership and Service
Nation's First Black Greek-Letter Fraternity Reflects on Rich Past, Looks Toward Bright Future
Washington, DC (BlackNews.com) - General President Darryl R. Matthews, Sr., of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., announced today that the fraternity will kick off its official 100th anniversary celebration at its national convention in Washington, D.C. on Tuesday, July 25, 2006. Founded on December 4, 1906 by seven distinct men at Cornell University in Ithaca, NY, Alpha Phi Alpha is the first and largest inter-collegiate Greek-letter fraternity established for Black college students.
"Our founders envisioned a day when the leadership of African-American men would become widely-recognized and respected, despite challenges of social and economic inequality," said Matthews. "And since many of our members have had a tremendous impact on the nation's social and economic policies, this made Washington an ideal place to both honor our founders' vision and celebrate 100 years of Alpha Phi Alpha achievements."
Alpha Phi Alpha has not only been influential in the areas of government and business, but also in education, community affairs, sports and entertainment. The fraternity's prominent members include Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., Thurgood Marshall, Charles Rangel, Marc Morial, Kwame Kilpatrick, Art Shell, Lionel Ritchie, the list goes on.
Over the years, Alpha Phi Alpha has lead hundreds of campaigns to uplift the African-American community, including the Million Dollar Campaign to support the NAACP, National Negro College Fund and the National Urban League. The renowned "A Voteless People is a Hopeless People" campaign was the first real organized demonstration to encourage African-Americans to vote. The fraternity's most recent campaign, the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Project, has raised nearly $60 million to date.
In addition, Alpha Phi Alpha has hosted many service initiatives that have directly affected the lives of African-American men. For more than 25 years, Alpha Phi Alpha has partnered with the March of Dimes Birth Defects Foundation to implement "Project Alpha," a program geared toward providing education and guidance to thousands of teen males in hundreds of communities.
Alpha Phi Alphas' over 650 chapters combined have contributed an estimated 650K in scholarships annually. The fraternity's presence in the African-American community has remained unparalleled for the last 100 years, inspiring a host of other African-American fraternities and sororities.
"Alpha Phi Alpha has touched the lives of many individuals, in one way or another," said Matthews. "For us, this milestone is more than a celebration of the fraternity's 100th year. This is a celebration of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.'s steadfast commitment to improving the African-American community. As we reflect on our past, we look forward to the future, by continuing our commitment through dynamic leadership and service."
About Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.
Since 1906, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. is committed to developing leaders, promoting brotherhood and academic excellence, while providing service and advocacy for the community. Today, there are over 200,000 members in 700 collegiate and alumni chapters in the United States, the Caribbean, Europe, Asia and Africa.
Posted by Rashid on July 10, 2006 at 8:38 PM | Comments (1)
What's Your Sexy Brazilian Name?
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Posted by Rashid on July 9, 2006 at 2:09 PM | Comments (1)
Say Somethin'
This is my JAM! YES!
And you know what else is my jam? Don't Cha by the Pussycat Dolls.
I so wish I could make this into a stroll song. lol, could you imagine the horror of my bros seeing me stroll to Don't Cha?
Posted by Rashid on July 5, 2006 at 7:51 AM | Comments (1)
Cover Designer
Cleaning out my super old emails and discovered something for you aspiring authors....a cover designer:
http://www.macropublishing.com/
I obviously used my own designer, but there's a link for those of you who want to try them.
Posted by Rashid on July 2, 2006 at 3:29 PM | Comments (0)
If you missed my birthday....
If you missed my birthday, I am really feelin' these t-shirts from Ratha Unique, a t-shirt company I only recently became acquainted with.
Check them out at http://www.rathaunique.com/
(I prefer an XXL but can comfortably wear an XL, LOL)
Posted by Rashid on July 1, 2006 at 4:32 PM | Comments (0)