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Have you seen him?

He looks like this....normal. Not all extra sexy GQ model....not all muscle-bound like a black Lou Ferrigno. He's not hyper-masculine or extra feminine. He's got straight teeth, fresh breath, great hygiene, and a weight proportionate to his height. He's normal. Just right, even.

He is not old enough to be my father or young enough to be my son.

He is outgoing outgoing, not obnoxious; laid back, but not passive or nonchalant; agreeable, not a pushover but not antagonistic; intellectual, but not a know it all.

He has a stable career or at least realistic and attainable professional aspirations. His hobbies and interests are legal and do not physically or emotionally harm him or others. He drinks....responsibly.

He's out to his family and his straight male friends. If he is not a Black gay man himself, he can empathize well.

He has an understanding and appreciation for fraternity and sorority life.

He lives in or near DC and transportation is not a problem.

He believes in God.

Have you seen him?

Posted by Rashid on May 5, 2007 at 7:32 PM | Comments (0)